I really wish that I’d had a friend like the writer of this article entitled “Trying Anal” a few years ago. It’s only recently that I’ve met women who are comfortable talking about anal play in a way that doesn’t scare me . I might even try it now. I think that it would be fun to pick her brain for a few hours and find out more. If you’re considering experimenting with anal sex and you have concerns or fears, this article should put your mind at ease about some of the basics. I feel a bit more comfortable at least knowing what I can look forward to. Happy Playing! For those of you that are interested, here’s an excerpt from the posting. “Will it hurt? Maybe a bit the first time tying it out. But that’s more likely due to lack of experience than anything about the body parts themselves. In most cases pain is due to the receiver being tense and constricting the muscles, the inserter pushing too hard too fast, using insufficient amounts of lubricant, or using an item that’s too big for your experience level. Relax and calm yourself.” click here